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What Is Shadow Work?: How Your Shadow Self Can Free You To Live Authentically

What Is Shadow Work?: How Your Shadow Self Can Free You To Live Authentically

Your shadow contains everything you don’t know about yourself, so how can you meet your shadow self?

What does “shadow self” mean?

Psychologist Carl Jung described the shadow as unconscious aspects of personality. These shadow parts of our personalities are not necessarily good or bad, they are simply parts of who we are that we aren’t aware of. The shadow self is composed of aspects of our personalities that it feels too scary to see. Our shadows are made up of parts of ourselves that we don’t think should be there for whatever reason. Our shadow selves could contain desires we don’t think we should have, emotions we don’t think we should have, and needs we don’t think we should have. The idea that these aspects of our personalities are undesirable might come from childhood, our culture, or significant experiences or relationships in our lives.

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Mindfulness Prompts for Connecting With Your Body

Mindfulness Prompts for Connecting With Your Body

What does it feel like when your mind and body are connected?

The way in which our minds and bodies interact with each other has a profound impact on our daily lives and our physical and emotional health. Spending some time reflecting on our mind-body connection in a big picture sense can help us to identify what’s working for us and what’s not when it comes to cultivating mindfulness in our daily lives. I invite you to explore - and journal about - your mind-body connection. If it feels helpful, use the journal questions below to start.

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Reflect On Your Relationships With These Journal Prompts for Relationships

Reflect On Your Relationships With These Journal Prompts for Relationships

How do your relationships impact your life?

Our relationships with friends, family, co-workers, and significant others have a profound impact on our lives. Despite the power of relationships in our lives, we may not commonly take the time to reflect on how our friendships, acquaintances, and other relationships impact us and how we impact those in our lives. I invite you to take a relationship inventory by reflecting on, and journaling about, the relationships in your life.

If it feels helpful, use the journal questions below to start.

Write down the names of 3-5 people you are around on a regular basis, or the names of 3-5 people who have the greatest impact on your life right now. For each person, answer the questions below.

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What I Wish I Knew Earlier About Healing Psychological Trauma
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What I Wish I Knew Earlier About Healing Psychological Trauma

Your body intuitively knows how to provide you with deep emotional healing & your body wants to heal you.

I’ve read a lot of things about the process of emotional healing and healing psychological trauma that I agree with and that make sense to me. But I also know that these ideas resonated with me earlier in my life at a time when I was deeply confused about how to go about the process of healing psychological trauma and desperate to get it underway. None of the things I read actually told me anything I could connect with about how to emotionally heal or what it looked like. A lot of what I read felt more like a simultaneous truth and platitude to me.

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Shadow Work Prompts For Childhood Trauma

Shadow Work Prompts For Childhood Trauma

What were you not allowed to talk about when you were growing up?

Families, like other social groups, have rules. Many of these rules are unwritten. Some of these unwritten rules tell us what we’re allowed to talk about and what we’re not allowed to talk about. If the family you grew up in was dysfunctional in some ways, there may have been many topics that couldn’t be discussed. Without self-reflection, we can unknowingly carry these same rules into our future friendships, romantic relationships, and our new families. Perhaps most detrimentally, we can also carry these rules into our relationship with ourselves.

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Shadow Work Journal Prompts For Taking A Memory Inventory

Shadow Work Journal Prompts For Taking A Memory Inventory

What do you remember, and what don’t you remember?

While we commonly recall past experiences, it’s less common to consciously reflect on what we do and don’t remember from earlier times in our life. These journal prompts encourage you to take a step back and look at your memories with a big picture view.

I invite you to grab your journal and write about times in your life you remember clearly and moments and eras you have few or no memories from. If it feels helpful, use the journal questions below to start.

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